Hey guys,

I feel there is too much focus on short term lays in this community but not enough emphasis on actually getting what many of us REALLY want. A HAREM of MULTIPLE HOT LOYAL WOMEN!

I'm not talking about lying and cheating to accomplish this.

Men who lie and don't have integrity aren't men.

I'm talking about a situation where all the women know whats up and are very close with eachother.

In many parts of the world and in many cultures it is very common for men to marry multiple women. Throughout history polygamy was a symbol of being a high status man.

I've been gaming for about 7 years, and over the past year I've been experimenting and studying the men in US/non US who have been able to have polygamous relationships.

These guys are doing things DIFFERENT than everyone else.

5 things I've seen all polygamorous relationships share in common; -.Pre-selection (the women knows the man can get other women), - Honesty and Open communication (no need to lie that monogamy fully satisfies you sexually, then do what many guys do and cheat behind your girlfriend's back) - Fairness (This avoids jealousy, I've seen some men keep a journal for what days each girl gets a date night, etc.) - They proactively pursued it and believe it was possible -The men are financially able to provide basics for their women (many times the women work still)

I believe many men could do polygamy, but they don't even think its possible. You can have multiple committed women in your life that all know about eachother, most men are stuck in groupthink, are liars, or are miserable.

Finding a women in the US who is down for polygamy is more difficult but can definitly be done. Those women just need some convincing, love, a guy with good game, and some demonstrations of status.

I think have a polygamous relationship is even harder when you hear from PUA coaches to move to cities like LA (extreme high status competition), Vegas (tourists and not long term), etc.

For American men, there are many women in Thailand/ the Philippines who would be open to a poly relationship.

Even if your a lower income American,you can go to a third world country and pretty easily find women.

Or you could go extreme and move to Utah and join a Mormon Church. (only small amount of Mormons still practice Polygamy)

Ideally, you probably don't want to keep running around nightclubs and only getting quick one night stands for years and years.

Dealing with the STD's, wasted time not spent on your career, short sightedness, shallowness, and lack of emotional attachments that comes with being a player forever in my opinion sucks.

Also I feel most men don't really want a monogamously committed relationship to one women either. I've felt like I wanted a relationship when I had no woman, but after I got a woman slowly after a couple months time, I lost much of my interest in that women and started looking elsewhere. This happened so many times, even with women I was in love with. (share your experiences) Even when you find the complete "perfect" woman for you, almost every time society pressures men to settle and then later have a feeling like something might be missing. This leads many to lie and cheat, find someone new, repeat the cycle, or have a unfulfilled sex life their entire life.

Women will constantly ask me "What about an open relationship or what about if the roles were reversed and she dated multiple men?" I've been in an open relationship, I’ve been with women who are with more than one guy. I don’t judge that. I’ve shared women with my brother. I don’t mind that, but I’m more of a man. To me, those guys that are with girls that have multiple men, they’re like pussy.

Have YOU ever pulled off dating multiple women who all know eachother? If so, please share how you did it and what the average guy needs to know to achieve it. Thanks