Hey everyone, I've been a long time lurker reading up trying to improve on my own but I just keep missing the spot.

Little background I'm in my last year of university I'm physically fit and not bad looking but I have a minor birth deformity which makes me self conscious and confidence with girls who I like is lacking (This I thought was from some real ball breaking heartbreaks) but moving on.

I find that I can approach anyone with confidence and can do public speaking quite well, but the second I'm approaching someone who im interested in I freeze up and cant intro, however if i skip the intro I can get a really good conversation going but again fail to make anything out of it.

I'm just aiming to get some advice to help me overcome it (i'm guessing its psycological) or intro's which I might be able to use to strike up a conversation.

TL;DR am self concious and lack confidence only when talking to girls im interested and lack game.