Hi all. So background on me. Average 21yo white male living in a western city. 3rd Year Computer Science Student and also Teacher. Also hold a job in Corporate IT, as well as work in a pizza shop Thursday Friday and Saturday night. Haven't had much luck with women over the years, and quite literally the definition of AFC. I evidently don't get a chance to go out much, so I'm trying to get my day game down pat. I'm pretty interested in clothing, and dress quite well. Need to hit the gym to get a bit more definition, and I'm, quite rapidly fixing my diet(which was never bad to begin with). Read Tofu's guide which was great, and need some other guides, but there's only so much reading guides will do as opposed to getting real world experience. I'm trying to become the man I believe the definiton to be, and also less of a little bitch. I've been trying to talk to more people, and it's been relatively succesfull. Not to say it's lead to anything, but been having nice conversations, and on occasion, with attractive women, so I need to work better on number closing. I actually had my first Saturday off this year last weekend and ended up at this punk metal club. Long story short, hooked up with a girl, gave me her number, and we've been on a couple of dates since, made out a bunch of times again. Trying to f close, but I have to say I'm not overly interested in dating her, or pursing anything serious. That said, she's a lovely girl, and I don't want to hurt her. I like the term of leaving girls better off than when you met them. I'm quite adverse to treating people as objects. I'm still at home, and working long and hard hours to try and get enough money to buy a house, and trying to get invited back to a girl's house seems much harder than inviting her back to yours.

As for pointers, there's a few things I've picked up over the years, which haven't really been filled with much experince.

-Don't add women on FB and talk to them there. Same can be said for text really. Use it ONLY to organise actual dates. It's a surefire way to get into the "friend zone".

  • Kino is fucking king. This is so true, and I've only learned to appreciate it since saturday. It really is great. You have to escalate though, can't just keep taping someone on their shoulder all night.

  • Talking People generally like it when you talk to them, do it. Start conversations.

Thanks for reading, and I'd love to here your thoughts on this.