[Need Advice] "Saving" Someone's Girlfriend

Serpent73 · 2019-01-27T02:26:53+00:00

You are in her orbit. Gradually reduce contact down to 0. If she dumps him before you ghost her, start fresh. If not, move on to someone smart enough to know a dumpster fire when she is in it.

littlejof · 2019-01-27T03:26:53+00:00

She’s using you to escape from a relationship she’s not ready to leave or commit to because she’s been in a long but complicated relationship. You shouldn’t get caught up in her relationship and definitely shouldn’t meet the guy. I think you should just end things and find other people to meet. Her relationship is probably far more complex than you could know since you’ve only known her for a few weeks and it’s not going to end up well for anyone with you staying in her life.

Giving an ultimatum to a girl you’ve known for a few weeks probably isn’t the best way to start a relationship, nor is it likely to work out in your favor. Try your best to move on man!

DrSleeper · 2019-01-27T02:55:39+00:00

I’ll begin by saying that if you want a relationship with her you should really question her loyalty to a partner, what she’s doing is shady at best. If you all out think she’s special you should give her an ultimatum if a relationship is what you’re after.

I don’t really see meeting the bf being a good idea in any sense.

Swift_Dream · 2019-01-27T03:34:35+00:00

Bruh distant your self at the moment, her wanting you to meet her ex in that context is petty couple BS that she could be using you for. I wouldn't even do the ultimatum, I would just chill on her and let her sort out her bullshit

shallowshallot · 2019-01-27T02:31:37+00:00

You sure this is the place you want to ask this question?

You know some of us like dangerous reckless stuff xD

So the question is how are you feeling? lol

Passive, aggressive, apathetic?

brettellier · 2019-01-27T02:09:04+00:00

Thats Ideal

Title	[Need Advice] "Saving" Someone's Girlfriend
Author	shallowshallot
Upvotes	5
Comments	15
Date	January 27, 2019 2:06 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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