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[–]ikeepon 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What’s there to happen over IG/text?! You’re the guy - it’s your job to escalate. Otherwise nothing, usually, will happen. So if you like her escalate and ask her out. Otherwise add her to your list of IG groupies. Seriously, all/ most chics wait for the guy to escalate. They follow our lead. So escalate already!
[–]Soggy-Ambition4647 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The problem is that I have little experience talking with girls. And I am not very talkative. So I might seem awkward trying to talk to her
[–]ikeepon 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s only a problem because you say so. Stop thinking it’s one and it disappears. Problem solved. The truth is you only get experience by doing and being awkward, making mistakes. That’s fine. You’re human, she’s human. If she lambasts you for being a little awkward then shame on her and move on. Either way you win: if you lose you win because you gain experience; if you win you win. Either way you win. With this way of thinking you always win. Start winning!
[–]Soggy-Ambition4647 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you!
[–][deleted] 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
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I gave her the IG by the way. We just chatted a little over text and nothing really happened. That was what I was meant to say.
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[–]Soggy-Ambition4647 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Should I reply if she texts me? Or if she texts me should I ask what is her goal?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
lmao this is absolutely terrible advice
What's you advice ?
[–]SnooMacarons4180 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This!!!!!!!!!!!
[–]IGetBoredSometimes23 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I usually initiate sexting if it's getting boring.
[–]CoffinEluder 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Women are terrible texters even when sexting
[–]IGetBoredSometimes23 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sorry your experience sucked. Mine was better.
[–]CoffinEluder 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ve had a few gems, but the majority will be me carrying the conversation with teasing/humor.
Rare to find a chick with that particular sense (why you see on dating apps: tell me a joke / make me laugh)
[–]EAlRe 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
do not ask her why she asked for your IG, you're just communicating to her that you're desperate for her attention, that's a No No, also do not do small talk with girls is counter intuitive, you only text to set up dates, real talk is at the date son, text = flirt, game, fun small memes or texts, etc, Date = Real talk, Roleplay, physical escalation, etc
I am in not way or form a god of seduction but this is my go to's for thing girls
-Small talk with emotion spiking then leave for 1-2 days(5-20 min max) -focus on yourself and do not text her everyday(that's n1 reason guys get ghosted even after them showing interest) - Set up a date with her after you start noticing she texts back faster than before -If you use social media alit of like to post stories, post stories hanging out with other girls (This is great to show her that you got options without the need to tell her) or friends of yours -Avoid avoid avoid talking about Boring stuff (Politics, Controversial topics like feminism, School or Work) -VOICE MESSAGES or Phone calls Work 100X Better than just messages -Avoid overdoing emojis, or emotional/girly emojis such as 😔😭🥺 - Always be doing stuff instead of waiting for a girls text to drop -Text more girls not just one, it makes it so you won't care as much on 1 that might even flake later on -If she does not text back within the same day, do not send a 2nd text, communicates lack of things to do, lack of women, or people to talk to in general -if the conversation topic dies, example You- "Yeah and we saw him it was hilarious lol" her- "Omg that's so funny hahaha" You (thinking what topic to bring out next) <-- this is where you leave the Convo die, just leave it, bring a diff topic 2-3 days later,
-Always let her to be the last message, not you
[–]Neverendinglove1986 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol um that's the problem. Your a guy what do u expect to happen with this person if u are texting? Shows no interest
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