Need advice

Nudle12 · 2024-09-13T22:13:00+00:00

soo, prepare for some self improvement months if you fail, you know why: you need better, But lets say that u can make something out of this. About the “date” what consider you a date with this person? Because for some inner-introverts is aqward to go out strictly for this. I am 18M and my advice for the physic, face to face, contact, to just go out with the group and start some basic conversations, to test that person, what she like or not. You know… there is a lot to say but remember: be confident, have faith in yourself that u can do it, be natural and just do it man! You will get better! And if you fail, accept it, analize your mistakes, phylosophy about them and move on. Just be better!

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2024-09-13T23:20:32+00:00

you are starting out wrong lol, I've been there it can lead somewhere but just ask her out on a date face to face asap, stop the shyness and cuckness, drink a bit if you need to calm your nerves but do it face to face, stop the chatting and make her wonder about you, this my friend could be a recipe for disaster, emotional disaster and lame attachment, just asked for advice, there you have it, read the game from neil strauss, in the meantime lol

Litelife93 · 2024-09-13T22:19:22+00:00

She's just an attention whore who likes the validation you provide to her. She's not really into you.

Beautiful-Slip-1625 · 2024-09-14T04:09:38+00:00

If she still doesn’t reply, just send a message saying ‘Yum. That looks like it was good, but I have something a little different in mind that I’d like to eat”

It’s something that could open the door to a few different avenues and also provide some insight if she’s sincerely into you/and taking things towards the next step (of meeting up for a casual date). It also might be a good ice breaker to see if she’s gonna reply back with something flirty or to see if she has a good sense of humor- at the same time, it might also open the door for you two to set up an actual IRL dinner date. … On the other hand, she might block you. But if things go sideways on the whole thing, just tell her that you literally were only meaning that you had a taste for something totally different than what she was eating, and that you just (embarrassingly) worded your message out waayy wrong (ex; her pic was Chinese food but you were having a taste for Italian Cuisine/or if her pic was McDonalds, you were having a taste for Taco Bell/etc)

Either way,, go get your girl, and good luck brother!

Title	Need advice
Author	NoConfusion1021
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	September 13, 2024 9:43 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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