need help with f buddy

ozzy91 · 2013-02-11T04:04:43+00:00

either when you want to fuck...or a little beforehand.."hey im out with some friends tonight but lets hook up/hang out/chill after". I personally use "chill" a lot. This is assuming you two have fucked already. One I've used when tryin to go to her place is "hey u home? Ill come over and say hi"...this can work even if u haven't fucked and its late enough that it cud only be sex.

Ch33sus · 2013-02-11T07:28:08+00:00

Question mark only.

TheFuckingWriter · 2013-02-11T04:32:31+00:00

Dick pic. 90 percent of the time, it doesn't work. 9 percent of the time, you'll get a restraining order. But that 1%, man.

BeatBoxing_Abe · 2013-02-11T03:31:43+00:00

"So whats up" no question mark

bluesbt · 2013-02-11T03:32:01+00:00

In my experience with a meh fwb I only really needed to contact when I needed to fuck, although if I called late enough in the day (2am) she wouldnt always be available. This was a few months after we first mated and I had ignored all her attempts to contact me.

or have you not yet f closed?

merrickx · 2013-02-11T06:49:18+00:00

I find that it's usually best not to have too many conversations, and to not have regular contact. Messaging every couple weeks for a romp is fine.

Unless she wants it as something that's very regular and often, then I'd be wary.

It's a case-by-case thing, I suppose. There's a friend that I fnck all the time and talk to all the time, but this is probably due to us having been pretty good friends before we randomly copulated one sloshy evening.

In_Liberty · 2013-02-11T16:29:24+00:00

she said we should be f buddies.

We can show you where the urinal is, we can unzip your pants, hell someone can even hold your dick for you, but we sure as shit can't piss for you.

SethMemVegas · 2013-02-11T02:28:19+00:00

leave

growth4life · 2013-02-11T04:53:10+00:00

A week is a while but you can make it back by initiating simple conversation. "I just saw _____ and it reminded me of you." is a good way to start. Variations are i just heard, smelled, or just something that can remind her of you. After about an hour of texting, usually just a handful of text back and fourth (6 + 10) ask her out for a drink or to come by for a movie or just to meet up.. at that point she will either ask for more details (which is good), say Ok, or No or not respond at all. If she says yes your task is complete, If she does not respond do not text her back that night.

If she does not respond text her two days later just to have light hearted conversation about random things again, entertain her, use colorful language etc. Then after a handfull of texts (6+) ask her out again....

The reason you text after a couple of days if she doesn't respond or say no is that you do not come across as being needy, while showing that you go for what you want. Also all the texting back and forth has increased repport and has also made her more comfortable about hooking up. This has worked for me.. Now if she says no or does not respond the second attempt it is time to cool your jets and move on for the time being. Good luck...

Title	need help with f buddy
Author	not-the-bees
Upvotes	4
Comments	14
Date	February 11, 2013 2:22 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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