I began the transformation away from AFC about 7 months ago. I sarged dozens of times, solo and sober, but started to improve, getting phone numbers, kisses, and dates. Anyway, through this I met a cool girl and started dating her. All of a sudden, after 5 months, she says she wants space. Here is the thread from /r/relationship_advice: http://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/qw5ab/gf_wants_space_has_doubts_about_us_need_advice_on/

Anyone have experience with this? Sometimes I wonder if I should have decided to not get into a relationship until I was a master with women, but this girl was really cool (and cute!). Throughout the past 5 months, I've followed the mantra of being your true self, which is what attracted this girl in the first place. I don't think I strayed from this at all, never lying, being jealous of her, competing with her, or even needing her. I just really enjoy her, making her laugh and smile, having sex with her, etc. It's really difficult to maintain outcome independence in a relationship, where you are investing time and money, wanting it to blossom. I know there are other girls out there, that my girlfriend isn't that special, but that she's special to me after this time. While I am suffering from weakened outcome independence, I don't think I have oneitis really. I'm just pretty sad right now.

Any advice on what she means by "wanting space"? Is this her way of telling me she is done with me? I told her I wasn't going to wait around for her. She said she didn't want to make me wait. I told her that she's not going to make me do anything. I told her that the only reason I do anything is not because she wants me to or tells me to, but because I want to, because I like making her happy. She said that it might be good for me too, to clear up any confusion. I told her, "No, this is all coming from you. I have no confusion, except for what you're thinking." There is more information in the relationship advice post, but the people over there sometimes give bad advice, especially for guys. I could use some opinions and advice from seddit's perspective. Dump her and start sarging again? Just wait and see? What? Thank you so much.

TLDR: GF of 5 months says she wants space. OP doesn't know what this means or what to do.