Hello everyone.
First off, my apologies if this post may seem a little irrelevant or not worth responding to, but I went clubbing by myself last night, and I needed some insight from people who have been there before and are experienced.
Now, I have zero game. This isn't a joke, but I'm slightly autistic and my social skills need MAJOR work. I'm 27. I've never been in a relationship before with a girl, and I don't have many friends. Talking is not my forte, nor is my ability to interpret or read social signals, but it's a process I'm willing to overcome and get better at.
Being at the club, last night, a girl asked me if I wanted to dance. When she asked me the first time, I was next to her, and just started dancing, bumping into her, playfully. Then, she laughed... immediately walked away.... Moments later... Came back, and asked me if I wanted to dance again. I didn't say anything. Just started dancing again. She came closer, and started grinding with me pretty intimately. We danced for about 30 seconds and then the music briefly stopped, and she walked off. I sensed that she was pretty annoyed. This happened another time too, actually, with a different girl. Different situation. Same circumstance.
I thought about it a little bit, and deep down inside I don't think I really felt like dancing with her that intimately. I didn't want to be cold and blow her off, though. Was it rude of me to dance with her in the first place? What's the rule behind this?
Thank you.
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