Ok, so I need some insight in to what the hell happened, hopefully you guys can explain it to me because I'm still dumbfounded. So, let's rewind about 9 months to when I met an HB9 to me. We had a mutual interest that made it possible for us to see eachother on a consistent basis so I got her number. Fast forward, maybe a week and I ask her out for a drink. We chat have a great time, lots of good negging, and escalating kino. It starts to get a bit late and we wind down, stop drinking and it's time to say bye. When I walk her to her car we kiss on the cheek (lame as hell I know) but honestly it's 2:30 in the morning and I have to be at work by 6:30. The next day we are texting and she says she had a great time with me let's do it again. So that's the back story. Now here is where I am completely dumbfounded. She tells me that she just got out of a relationship and is a man hater right now. I tell her "That's cool, I understand what it's like. I had a good time with you so let's not worry about the small shit. She then tells me "that she only sees me as a friend, and just didn't get that butterfly in the stomach feeling with me, and that there was nothing I did wrong because the moment she met me she just wanted to be friends." So, can someone tell me what the hell happened? As of now I'm so deep in the friend zone with her that there is no saving myself. I'm pretty much ok with this but I just want to know how in the hell I ended up there from nothing.

Sorry if this is hard to understand, I barely understand it myself