What an awesome community! I love to see men coming together to help and support other men who are struggling with things πͺ
About me... Abandoned by my alcoholic mother as a little baby and subsequently raised by my misogynistic father who brought in many would-be stepmothers into my life, but he was abusive and always drove them away. So my abandonment issues and trauma around my relationships with women go WAY back π«€
I'm also on the spectrum and moved to a lot of different schools where I was awkward and bullied. Needless to say, I was terrible with women beginning in puberty through my late 20s because I absolutely reeked of desperation to be loved and accepted by a woman π«
When the pain of loneliness became unbearable (mid-to-late 2010s), I consumed all the self-help I could find, generated the nerve to put myself out there, and after several more awkward years, my dating and love life eventually transformed into something truly incredible. When I finally obtained the attention and affection from women that I had craved since a child, it felt better than anything else I've ever felt in my life π³
My life experience inspired me to become a coach and help guys like me. Dating coach? Maybe. But I'm really more on the life coach side of things. I've got my own unique combination of perspectives and strategies to offer men looking to have success with women, but I'm mainly wanting to coach men through their unaddressed emotional pain and trauma that I know for a fact is holding them back from the life they want. I'm simply a coach for who I was in my past π
This is not an advertisement as I currently have nothing to sell. This is simply who I am in this moment. I did write a (free) book and the first part of it is on my profile page, but I really think I can be most helpful by being supportive and providing a form of accountability for guys to take action π
Look forward to growing together with you all. Much love to everyone β₯οΈ
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