I just thought of this analogy that may help you understand the importance of managing your physiological state / bodily feelings when approaching a woman...

Women can especially sense the energy that's happening inside of you and they're especially suseptible to being impacted by it. If you feel nervous or uncomfortable as you approach them, they'll begin to feel that exact same feeling and you will be rejected.

So be like a doctor talking to his patient before surgery...

If your doctor comes in and you can sense he's nervous... You can sense he's not comfortable or confident with what's about to happen... His eyes are darting around, he's breathing quickly and shallow, his voice is shaky and high pitched, he's stuttering his words, and his body language is tense and closed... As the patient, you're going to get really nervous and afraid as well...

However, the experienced, confident doctor has an aura that instantly relaxes you. His energy is calm and comfortable and you breathe a sigh of relief when you realize "Everything is going to be OK".

So learn to approach women with that same energy as an experienced doctor who knows exactly what he's doing and watch how much better your interactions go.