Fear of Rejection Advice

Club__Paradise · 2024-11-22T10:47:44+00:00

Very true. Personally, I've never been scared of rejection. I sometimes find rejection relieving, it means I can go back to concentrating on myself or meeting other women - no more time invested in someone not worth my time. Don't get me wrong, I don't particularly enjoy it and I'm sure if I got rejected all the time, it might feel a bit shit, but it means nothing to me. I am who I am. My past dating experience and relationships prove to me that there are girls out there who like me. But I'm not arrogant enough to go around assuming every girl is going to like me, I've been rejected enough times to show me that too.

So it is what it is. My biggest fear is not living up to my full potential and regretting it when I'm old. For every one girl who does like me, I wonder how many more are out there who also would...So it pushes me to go out and discover them, rather than sit at home every night and have no memories to look back on.

Joy_Boy_12 · 2024-11-22T07:27:23+00:00

it's mainly insecure of us. For every 1 outcome which the rejection is because of me there are 99 outcomes that the rejection has nothing to do with me. We will still pay more attention to those 1's outcomes because some insecure thoughts in our head.

The chances we tried to hit the wrong girl are larger than we making a mistake so we should hit them anyway because that's the way to find the one

TransitionNormal1387 · 2024-11-22T01:28:36+00:00

Or maybe, just maybe, they aren’t attracted to you.

Aerion91 · 2024-11-22T10:36:34+00:00

Bro, when you run around for 8yrs and never find a woman that is single/eligible rejection starts to feel like improvement 😥

epimpstyle · 2024-11-22T11:48:01+00:00

I'm curious if you take it as a rejection when she says: "I have a boyfriend".

There's no way of knowing if what she's saying is real or not, and that's a good thing, otherwise you could see that "I have a boyfriend" means "Leave me alone, I don't like you", but because we don't know if it's real or not, we can assume whatever we want.

FlexViper · 2024-11-22T17:43:41+00:00

A good marksman start out by missing his target not fearing the recoil or the loud bang while pulling the trigger even though he doesn't know what he's doing.

It gets better once he learned the correct method and proper forms inorder to land his shots more accurately because he never stop trying

Title	Fear of Rejection Advice
Author	KoleSekor
Upvotes	25
Comments	12
Date	November 21, 2024 11:21 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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