New to tinder .. any help?

BobbyBurrito22 · 2018-05-08T23:15:04+00:00

I’d try looking up guide to tinder, openers etc. on google and in the search bar on reddit. There’s plenty out there. Most of it will tell you to comment on something unique in her profile. Anything but “hey” or “how’s it going?” Do the former and you’ll have a more interesting opener than 70% of what girls typically get. Profile pics are probably more important than the opener, make sure they’re prof quality. Need a headshot, body shot (show body if you’ve got one, and make sure it’s in a natural setting, not a mirror pic), one doing something cool (show passion or that you’re interesting)

HairlessGreek · 2018-05-08T23:57:55+00:00

Say something that relates to their bio or pics

Kuwait_Infidel · 2018-05-09T06:53:57+00:00

Take really really really really good pictures and you’ll be forgiven with texts.

Sometimes you feel your text is wrong. But it’s not it’s actually the picture. I just updated my tinder with new pictures and now I can simply say “Hi”, “How you doin” and get answers and numbers.

My pictures are taken with a modern smartphone and few apps to touch. YouTube how to take a great picture of yourself.

tab13092 · 2018-05-09T17:41:06+00:00

Haha same happened to me about a year ago.

Some general tip's;

Have a good variety of high quality photo's (Ideally, you're trying to market yourself; showcase yourself dressed well and having fun)

I always go for a funny bio myself, something that tells a little bit about myself while also setting the tone that I'm generally a laid back/funny guy right from the start.

As for openers, I generally just look back to their profile and ask them about something in their picture or bio; Once I matched a girl who was in a cast in one of her photo's, so naturally that was an easy one "I'm sure you get asked this every time, but how in the hell did you end up in a cast?!" Another time, I see a girl playing a ukulele so I oppened with "I hope you're going to serenade me with that uke" Got her laughing and we immediately connected over our passion for music.

Over all, just set up a visual profile that showcases your best self and have fun. There's no right or wrong way to go about it. There simply are just bits you can improve. Put the profile out with decent pictures, and change them periodically as you're out doing fun stuff. That's about all I've got, and thus far in the past year I've had pretty decent luck with Tinder.

uderwuud · 2018-05-09T09:28:36+00:00

Man, I try it all, but the most successful (so far, which is twice) opening is:

Hi, you are beautiful.

(Her reply)

Since you are so beautiful, may I take you out sometime?

There, if she reply after the 1st message positively, most of the time it will work out. Otherwise you know right from the get go that she's not interested so you can stop wasting time on her.

Edit: As some guy said below, nice pictures help a lot. Make time to take a good pictures, and choose the best ones. Dont half ass with them picture.

Robo_dogo · 2018-05-09T03:24:51+00:00

Open with:

"Hey, I know this is forward and I'm not judging you in any way...but, do you want to come over tonight and chill with some netflix?"

Title	New to tinder .. any help?
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Date	May 8, 2018 10:03 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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