I used to date a girl back in late 2017 until ~February 2018.

The dates were great. We both had fun, up until she sounded cold and bored, last time I called her. That's when I realised she's probably no longer interested. I did ask her on a date then, but I knew I wouldn't get one. That's when somewhat soft-nexted.

After 3 weeks I was in her area, so I hit her up and went to grab a coffee. She seemed happy to see me. The only time I escalated there was before dropping her off, I did caress her hand while driving. She responded well externally, but not sure how she actually felt.

Next week before weekend, I asked her to join me skiing. (she loves that) She said yes at first. Then started being flakey. I told her, "whatever, if you want to, tell me by this evening''. Then she shit tested me "only the two of us going there''? I said something like "you can bring a few girlfriends of yours to introduce me to them" and something outrageous like "grandma was about to come, but she injured herself at MMA practice last week". She sent a laughing emoticon and that was it.

One month has passed, I did not contact her, neither did she. Shit, big oneitis. I've been with another two girls in the meantime but it's still her I'm thinking about. Contact her again soon, let time pass or let go?