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[–]Kenic_In_MD 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
Nah man just keep trying, i'm coming out of almost a TWO YEAR slump. Yea dude....
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
Or my online pictures suck. Though I've done one approach in 2 months
[–]Kenic_In_MD 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Well that's part of the problem too. Just accept you are going to get rejected, everyone gets rejected. I've already lost count. I really don't care anymore when I get rejected it still hurts my ego a bit but keep moving is all.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
I wouldn't care so much if I was at least on one freaking date so far
[–]Kenic_In_MD 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Think of it like this, you are on the precipice of getting a date. But how would you know if you give up?
I also do a thing I call "firing on all cylinders" I have an OKC, Tinder, reddit and I go out to approach. If you really want it, go out there and get it dammit.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
I have, just no matches ever on tinder, okc has been meh at best and what's on Reddit? Disrupting some poor girls day might not be the best way to get a date
[–]Kenic_In_MD 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I have been on tinder for 2 years, only got 1 meetup from it and she didn't even fuck me.
For reddit, go to r4r. And on the lower right you can see links to r blowjobs, r muffdive, and dirtyr4r. These are sub reddits that facilitate meeting up with girls and doing what is in the post. Plenty of success stories and I almost had a couple off of there. 4 or 5 girls I turned down because I wasn't interested in them.
Disrupting some poor girls day
Why dont you think of it as you are making them feel good about themselves. Dont assume you are ruining their day.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
How does r4r work? What subs did you use for you having a couple off there? Does it depend on city?
[–]Kenic_In_MD 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Some areas are more active than others, but r4r just go google it and read what people post its really straight forward. It stands for redditor 4 redditor if they want to meetup, hang out have sex. Whateves.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Do you have to provide Id that you're real?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
LMAO yeah there's your reason.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Bad pictures?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
no that you've done one approach in 2 months
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Makes sense though I don't know how to approach when it's just based on looks
stop asking for dates its 2017. it's called socially meaningful time.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What?
[–]hbPUA 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How many approaches have you done this month?
How long were in set?
Why do you think you are ugly?
Answer these and we'll dig deeper to help you overcome this obstacle.
[–]oh_god_damn_it 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
2 months? Try 19 mate. It's fucking torture.
[–]Praevaleamus 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've never had a date. Ever. Or a kiss. Nothing. Nada. Zilch. In fact, ima move to r/incels [just kidding about that part]
[–]cockycomedy 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
I am that ugly?
You haven't tried enough if you still believe that your lack of success stems from your physical looks.
First learn to be confident and secure about who you are. Stop hating yourself. You can't change what you look like beyond a good haircut, stylish clothes, cologne and a good tooth brushing.
Only then you can practice and achieve success.
Women are not attracted to your looks on a gut level. They are attracted to your character.
What kind of woman do you think would be attracted to a desperate guy who thinks he is ugly? Honey Boo Boo's mother? NOT EVEN HER. You couldn't get Honey Boo Boo's mother Mama June to sleep with you at this point in your life and your mental state.
Read a book. No pickup book says it's about your books. Read a book and digest it. Don't skim over it without understanding.
If that doesn't help. Download David De Angelo's "Deep Inner Game" "How to be a man that bla bla" audio programs. Listen to them. Download an audiobook of John Alexander's "How To Be An Alpha Male". Listen to it on loop when you go out.
[–]thevox3l 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'd just like to point out Mama June changed her looks quite a bit.
[–]cockycomedy 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh wow! Good job! I appreciate and approve of people who can get out their comfort zone and change themselves. She did well.
I too have lost 30kg (only) over 4 months to become skinny. It's not easy.
[–]thevox3l 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
30kg is still quite a lot, well done! It's better than nothing, or 20kg!
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