Hi, I started to date a girl 4 months ago, it was great and casual, we were together every two weeks then everyweeks for a month, sex was great, she texted me a lot etc... realy thought she was into me.

So last week I texted her that i didn't not want to see other girls than her for the past few days, and then... she responded she could'nt do the same with me, that she loved me very much but didn't want to be exclusive + that she wasn't seeing someone specific at the moment... I'm 28 and she's 24 by the way. I don't realy understand she was constently texting me and we had great time together....

Anyway, it hurted me but I said it was ok and that I was going to keep living my life and meeting other womens as we were doing, but now I'm totaly obseded by her, can't stop thinking of her and stalking her. Do you have any advices on how to stop thinking about her but still be ok to see her from time to time ?