Long story short... My ex was up here for the holidays a few weeks back. She saw me in the bar. We spoke, then when I came to her to tell her I was taking off she invited me back to her table with her family and gay best friend. They leave, then before I can even get into my car they come back and ask me and my friend if we'd like a lift.... So we pick up her sis and drive around in my car laughing and listening to music for like 4 hours.

What does this have to do with the title of my post? Well... I spent a lot of time roasting her. Seriously. It's something I don't usually do to her since I never see her anyway, but she laughed at some of my burns. Others, either flew over her head and she just said, "he's being mean to me"

Next night though... I see her at the bar again. This time, after joining her to sit down, a friend comes over and says hi to me. It's loud so I say something back to him in his ear, and she sees this from the corner of her eye and goes, "hey what did you say? Secrets aren't fun!"

I say "nothing" but keep good eye contact with her, and I begin to smirk... She keeps pressing me to tell her what I said, until finally I go, "I just said hi..."

She laughs and asks me why I didn't just tell her that... I tell her because it was honestly fun just fucking with her, and she let's out an even bigger and louder laugh. In this moment, I realized that this girl definitely responds better to this kind of humor than she does actually being roasted. Which I should have known, because she's sensitive, but I've been single for a few years now just having short relationships and flings and so that kind of sarcastic cocky asshole that you just can't seem to hate type character is who I've naturally become more and more of... So of course to me I would think this would be a good default response but a PUA must be able to calibrate ya know?

Hence the whole meaning of this post... If you've read everything thus far, I thank you and appreciate you allowing me to give you full context. I wanna do more stuff like the moment we had above that I described. Anybody got any good techniques that involve eye contact and touch. I need her to feel sexual around me. I want her to feel turned on, and comfortable to express her true self.

Thumb wars, mercy, any good game ideas or silly things that will get her laughing but not make me look like a dancing monkey? She lives outta state with her boyfriend, but even told her sis not to tell him that she hung out with me because naturally he hates me, and has for awhile now 😂

And before you say, "dude let her go. Move on... Forget this one... Blah blah blah... I'm a stubborn italian and I'm gonna do whatever the fuck I want. I don't have too much trouble getting girls but I really want this one so even if all else fails at the very least I can use this stuff on another woman in the future. I'm working on getting a girlfriend that's at least what you'd call a 7 but that's not as easy as I thought it would be but I'm talking to a few girls now so I feel it getting closer. So please, any an all good ideas that involve physical touch and eye contact would be great if you've got them. Thanks.