Hey all. So I'll just keep this real simple... I used to be a member of the MPUA forum. Hadn't checked my account on there in over a year only to find out that the forum is officially closed up so I decided to give Reddit a try! Really looking forward to having some good exchanges with you guys and as my first Reddit experience I'm hopeful.

Regarding the post... I seem to have no trouble whatsoever getting matches on tinder. For some reason though, I'm having trouble getting these girls out on dates. My openers are usually spot on... Being a member of the community for such a while I know aot about the basic fundamentals and what not but still for some reason, either because I'm being too direct, or who knows why else... It's just frustrating. My profile is good, my pics are good, (I've had this verified by strangers in person)

Any of you guys seem to have experienced anything like this? I really think I might be going too direct, but it's a fucking hook up app for Christ's sake, and I dont wanna be boring and bland either. I guess maybe it's all about finding the right balance...

Your thoughts on the matter? Give me your best rundown of how you've gotten the app to work in your favor.