Not a gold digger but…

DunionKnight · 2022-01-19T17:05:28+00:00

TL;DR High value men of means are looking for potential wives who are: fit, feminine, friendly, cooperative, and with no kids.

Get therapy.

Ask yourself this, “what do the people you want, want.” Do you think they want someone with baggage and who’s willing to collect and give red flags to bury their insecurities and low self esteem? Because this search for external validation won’t do well for you in the long run.

Rich/wealthy men of high value want wives. Does someone who want a “hot girl summer” indicate wife to you? Or plaything and fun girl. You never said wife. Only “how do I seduce.” You could probably seduce a rich man for something short term and casual. But you never specified. Which leads me to believe your intentions are less than kosher and aim to make a man a financial plan. If they’re going to take the majority of financial responsibilities. What do they get in return? It’s sounds transactional. But you get what you negotiate in life. The other side of duty in relationships and marriage are the bonds we create.

If this is a honest question then good. Seek therapy. You’re looking for the wrong things and who could blame you. Your frame of reference for life and the world is small. If you were my sisters, cousin, or female friend, I would encourage you to keep your body count low. Sex is great. But it seems to have a more detrimental effect on women than men the more sexual partners you have.

Other questions to ask yourself is, “why do you need/want/desire a ‘hot girl summer.’” “What does a ‘hot girl summer’ mean to you.” “What greater goal, if any, is worth striving for.” Because a lesser and easy to obtain goal might conflict with a harder but greater goal you want to achieve for yourself.

Lastly, the title of this post “not a gold digger but...” doesn’t inspire confidence when you’re leveraging your command on female sexuality to acquire a man of means and for no other purpose than to... what. Support a luxurious lifestyle? You soften the language to make it seem something else that it’s not. Playing slick and loose with words, filtering the narrative to make yourself feel better, is only going to feed into a pathology of several if not many bad things.

If nothing else. Here are two rules for yourself and life: don’t lie, and tell the truth. Yes, those are two different thing. We’re raising the floor of your own standards of integrity, while raising the ceiling of responsibility.

wakawah · 2022-01-19T17:30:47+00:00

"I'm not a gold digger", then proceeds to ask how to become one. Should have said you are inspiring to be one.

thelambofdeth · 2022-01-19T16:51:37+00:00

depressedBullsFan3 · 2022-01-19T16:47:55+00:00

Look at the type of girls rich guys date, see if you match those standards. Then go on from there

frederickrl · 2022-01-19T19:51:11+00:00

Looks like these guys are taking it personally —

Look for a community of like minded women. If both you and the other party are aware of each other’s intentions then I wish you the best of luck! — to add to that, these guys won’t be able to give you a real answer

MattPruga · 2022-01-20T11:28:33+00:00

yuckkk, stay away from these women

Title	Not a gold digger but…
Author	lelebebe5
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	January 19, 2022 4:39 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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