I’ll try to keep this as short as possible.

Backstory: This girl found me through social media well over a year ago. She initiated every conversation. Eventually she asked to hang out. We clicked really well. Was too beta to make a move (sex). She lost interest. I became a needy little bitch. Sent paragraphs professing my love etc, etc. You know the story. Quit talking but seen her around sometimes. Kept my distance, but I was friendly when I seen her.

She hits me up a couple months back and makes it clear she wants to fuck. No idea why but I’m down. So now we’re banging around once a week. We don’t text much, usually I’m initiating the “dates”. The convos drop off quick and replies are few and far between on both ends. She rarely flakes and if she does she reschedules. We meet at my place and we’ll fuck and then go grab food or a coffee. She won’t stay the night and leaves within an hour of having sex usually. She’s pretty distant when we’re not together.

In the beginning I told her I wanted something casual and she said she wanted the same. Unfortunately that has changed. I’m catching the feelz again bois. So that’s where I’m struggling. I want something more than a fuckbuddy with her but I don’t know if I should just wait until she brings it up (or eventually calls it quits) or if I should ask her about it. What would you do? Any advice is appreciated.