Now, that I have some confidence by reading about different types of cold approaches, I am kinda overwhelmed by all the options I have.

bluecollarx · 2024-03-02T20:29:27+00:00

Option 4

letsgetwizzyy · 2024-03-02T20:31:59+00:00

You practice the various options and determine what works best for you and craft your style from that.

Direct Approach

This is when you the first thing you communicate to a woman indicates that you are romantically interested in her. This could be complimenting her physical appearance (not her style/outfit) but looks, or using a pickup line. Direct approach is best for guys who are more confident and bold.

Pros

Allows for intent to be known and clear

can save you time if she is not physically attracted to you what so ever

Cons

Not always ideal to use in certain situations

Shouldn't necessarily be used in a place you go frequently because you want to avoid getting a reputation of guy who hits on lots of women in the vicinity

Indirect Approach

This is when you reveal romantic interest in a woman at some point during a conversation other than your opening remarks. This is best for guys who aren't confident or bold enough to immediately establish romantic interest, or have not optimized their looks enough yet to get their foot in most doors. The idea here is that you build a woman's attraction through your conversational/social skills. You have to do the same thing during direct approach, but your intent is not known initially when going this route, so they are more relied on.

Pros

Better for guys who have not optimized their looks

Great for guys with good conversational and social skills

You know that a woman may be interested in you for something other than your looks

can be used if you anticipate seeing the woman again

Cons

Some men have a hard time escalating the conversation, establishing romantic interest, and getting to the point

Men can reveal unflattering information about themselves making them less attractive.

not best to use if you are in a hurry or if the woman you want to approach is moving.

This article goes into detail about how to approach women directly:https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-approach-women-direct-game?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web

This article discusses how to approach women indirectly: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-approach-women-indirect-game?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web

Title	Now, that I have some confidence by reading about different types of cold approaches, I am kinda overwhelmed by all the options I have.
Author	MadonatorxD
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	March 2, 2024 8:23 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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