Throwaway obv cuz this was beta to the max. Just want peoples take on why it works sometimes. If I feel things have gone cold with a cute girl and I'm going to move on I'll send em something along these lines. Note: I'm not recommending anyone else do this...I was just curious why it seems to work sometimes.

"Hey if you're not into me anymore its cool I'll be OK. Anything I did that turned you off if you could tell me I'd really appreciate it. You're the type of girl I'm looking to attract. Whether you respond or not I won't pester you anymore. Good luck so and so"

She then proceeds to blow up my phone about being busy and shes attracted to me and blah blah which I totally did not expect. In the past sometimes this happens, other times they will actually give a tidbit of info. For reference I'm 32 shes 18 and cute as hell.