So I just broke up with my gf a few weeks ago. Since then her and I have both joined Ok Cupid. I have been at it for weeks, trying and messaging and putting myself out there. I haven't gotten as much as a 'hello' in return, but somehow she has a date after being on the site for a night.

Anyway, enough of my whining. Can anyone give me suggestions as to what to do? Obviously being myself isn't working and its killing my self esteem that after one night she has a date on the first site she joins and I haven't had as much as a drunk hookup between Ok Cupid, Craigslist, and actually physically going out to bars/walking around with my dog/all sorts of shit.