Hi Seddit.

Nice to see that this subreddit is still active. I've started with Pickup about 3 years ago (I used to post here a lot https://www.reddit.com/user/SwissPUA/ ) and I've focussed a lot on classic Pickup in the beginning. That was somewhat successful but didn't get me what I wanted: regular, controlled success.

Since 2 years ago I've taken a break from the community, because I didn't have that much time for all the reading and I focussed more on finding my own style, built upon the foundations I've learned here. Compared to the year when I read Pickup material nearly daily, progress was much slower, but I was able to create my own "behaviour", build my own techniques and learned the subtle clues which are important for a successful pickup. I guess there has also been a lot of Inner Game development but I've always focussed more on Outer Game.

Anyway, I now get an F-Close every 3-4 nights out (sometimes faster, sometimes slower) but I can't transition further (Relationship or FWB). So I've decided to ask the community for help who brought me this far. Does anyone have any good material, advice or links on this?

Also, feel free to ask me anything in the comments. I don't know how this community has transitioned (more towards Inner Game as the PUA scene in general?) but I'd love to share what I've learned. And thanks for everything you guys taught me!