Okay, this is probably going to get a lot of flak, but I'm curious what people think about it.

The current view on oneitis is to stay as far away from it as possible, and keep multiple women running on separate threads until you decide to go exclusive. However, I've found that I've had the best chemistry with my successful oneitis targets. The sex is better, the hanging out is better, the limerence is better. Essentially, without oneitis, I don't feel the type of connection required to release oxytocin/serotonin/dopamine to establish a long term relationship.

Essentially, I like feeling butterflies when I talk to the one I really like. I like being scared in the beginning. I like being unsure, and laughing about those mutual feelings as we lay in bed together.

Anyway, a bit of a ramble, but does anyone who is successful choose to keep their oneitis habits? I understand the idea for beginners, so that they can get over the crippling approach anxiety, but once you feel confident, has anyone chosen to only pursue oneitis targets like I have? Sure, you net less, but to me, what I do get is worth more.