31M here, long story short after a long time out of the game I'm looking to get back in. Not really looking for anything too serious at this time, just want to have a little fun.

Age-wise, I'm open to getting with women who are anywhere age 20-50. I drink socially, smoke weed and occasionally do other things, but I don't make a habit of it.

I already hit the gym and am in good shape overall. Not low enough body fat for abs but getting there. Got my shit together career wise, have my own place and car, not a millionaire but well off enough to live a comfortable lifestyle. I do get unsolicited attention from women every now and again, but I know I can't just sit around and hope women approach me.

The specific questions I have: * I've done hookups before, but I'm used to dating more open-endedly with the mindset things might get serious. What are some tips to get myself used to just casually dating? * Does honesty and upfrontness work as a policy, or do I need to play tricks and mind games to get what I want? * Are the dating apps a waste of time when it comes to seeking out hookups?

Open to any other general advice and tips, thanks!