For a little backstory, I posted this about a year ago.
http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1pg1bx/hawaii_comparison_for_puas/
Basically, I live in Hawaii and while we have a population of over a million, we have a very closed, small-town environment where "everyone knows everyone." Don't believe me? One day while day gaming, I got a girl's number, got another girl's number two hours later, and through a mutual friend, found out that they were best friends. I obviously got neither of them; that must have been a fun conversation. Just imagine a town of ~2,000 where you are from and that's how it feels here.
Now my question is, how do I gain outcome independence as well as not racking up a reputation in these closed environments? Just remember that unlike most of you, I can't just drive to another town; I'm on an island. There has been so many times where I have gamed a girl, failed, and met them again through mutual friends or outings. Some suggestions for getting past it included:
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Tourist on Vacation - I generally like asians and I'm not particularly attracted to most white girls, but don't know enough Japanese to get past the language barrier for asians who don't speak English.
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Social Circle Game/Parties - This does work, but I feel like it is too slow. I want to actively do something. Not to mention greek-life is nonexistent at our universities.
Now there are two options left, clubs/bars and day game. The clubs/bars outside of Waikiki (main tourist area) are filled with regulars and college students. I don't really have any friends that enjoy going to clubs/bars on a regular basis and I'll admit, I am way too much of a pussy to go alone in a small town with all regulars. More and more, this has been brought up that I need to suck it up and go if I want to land a girl, despite the fact that I don't enjoy that scene at all. I don't even know how to order from a bar, I don't drink.
That leaves day game which I usually do at the malls. I always go direct with my approaches, but I've also read that going indirect will eliminate any potential reputation gains. It just feels weird because I feel like seddit has been swaying towards direct and that there isn't a lot of indirect advice on here anymore.
TLDR; looking for advice on gaming in a closed environment of ~2,000 people with the mindset of outcome independence, while avoiding a negative reputation.
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