1. Talk Louder- Be sure of yourself and don't come across as nervous. Be okay with social intention. You're conveying that you are an attractive person by the volume of your voice.
  2. Convey You (Assume)
    1. Question - Where are you from? How are you doing?
    2. Statement - You're a bad girl. You're interesting.
    3. You have to be the leading force throughout the conversation. The more energy you put in the more she'll invest.
  3. Leading
    1. Lead the interaction and choose the topics that you want to talk about.
    2. Cut threads.
    3. Give her emotion when you get value.
  4. Frame + Control - The way you think and how well you are able to hold your frame of mind without negative external influence. Here are some of my personal frames that I adopted. Reinforce the positive and throw out the negative.
    1. I am already good enough.
    2. There is always another girl.
    3. Everything I do works.
    4. I am always the most high valued person in any environment.
  5. Push/Pull - Think of it as positive and negative. Say something positive then negative.
    1. I like your shirt but I don't like the way it fits on you.
    2. I love your glasses, to bad there not my style.
  6. Disqualification - Pretty much the same thing as push pull but you're disqualifying yourself
    1. You're cute but to bad I got a girl friend.
    2. I don't like girls that wear gym clothes to work.
  7. Relaxed eye-contact.

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