overcoming my race

urfaselol · 2012-09-11T03:16:28+00:00

Chase1126 · 2012-09-11T04:09:54+00:00

I'm sorry if this is racist, but spike your hair, wear dark glasses, and buy a WRX.

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-09-11T03:20:40+00:00

Why are you filled with such self-loathing? You think nerdy asian guys never get girls? Go find a successful nerdy Asian guy and do what he does. And no, I don't mean some idiot "Asian Dating Coach" that will just exploit your neurosis about race. If you want to be successful at something, find someone like you who is successful in the way you want to be, find out what makes them successful, and do that. You don't have to change who you are. That would mean you became a phoney fake, that is not going to impress the girls, they will sense it.

2012-09-11T04:31:30+00:00

build muscle, get a haircut, learn to dress well. stop complaining.

funfwf · 2012-09-11T06:18:06+00:00

Urfaselol gave you a good starting point.

But being Asian as a problem is all in your head. Look at the biggest population in the world and then try to tell me your race will stop you getting laid.

Nerdiness in itself is not a problem, however its symptoms can be. Things like poor hygiene, inability to speak clearly, too much spare time and no social life might be the symptoms. Luckily though, they're all things you can work on. You never said what's nerdy about you. Are you smart? That's a good thing. Do you like 'nerdy' things like anime? So what. You can have nerdy traits without the negative consequences, but you must address what you think is the real problem first.

Inner game should be your first step.

Title	overcoming my race
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	September 11, 2012 2:30 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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