Hello everybody,

Allow me to share with you some traits of my personality, and please share your thoughts and advice.

Pace

Do you know that feeling when you find a new song that you really like and you just have to listen to it in an endless loop, maybe for hours, maybe for days until you get tired of it? Yep , I've got that with women. When I meet someone that really sparks my interest, I have this need to spend a lot of time with her so I can get to know her. I get restless, I get really anxious and I really hate that. I know, of course this comes of as creepy, so I need to pace myself better, and I know that I've lost because of this.

I can guess that, one common opinion here would be that I feel like this because I lack "abundance of women" in my life which is true. It takes me time to open up to people, and thus make friends. So besides going out there and try to meet as many women as possible, what other tips can you give ?

Hormones

Even though I've never been Fat, I've always been really close to it. I had been going bald for a while now, so last year, I've decided to stop worrying about it and decided to fully embrace it. In the beginning I lost a lot of confidence, I didn't feel like myself and I also noticed that female attention was different as it used to be. So i thought to myself I can be fat and ugly, but fat , ugly and bald is just playing the game on impossible mode. (I am my own toughest critic) So I started to go to gym and i starting to feel like a new man. I'm getting more confident, I'm at the best shape of my life and really proud of my progress. I've also noticed that I have been hornier ( must be the increase of testosterone) . The thing is, I have this "thing", and to sum it up, during spring I feel horny as all hell. I'm kind of afraid that when spring comes I'll start having 24h erections. And thus enlarging the problem I described before. Any tip you guys can give me or I'll just have to become the weird guy that masturbates at work?

Advice

Two situations more "in tune" , with this subreddit.

1- Last Friday, I met a girl. We talked for a bit, exchanged contacts (facebook and number). She told me that she wouldn't be able to meet me until the 29th because of her thesis work. Monday I texted her, asking her to remind me why she wouldn't be able to meet me before the 29th, I remember, I just wanted to restart the conversation. She hasn't replied. I'm a foreigner living in her country, and usually my go to, approach is to ask girls to show me their favorite parts of the city. She agreed to go out with me under this pretext.

I think it's worth it to try to text her again, but I'm not sure how I should do it this time, any suggestions?

2- I've been looking for a new house for myself. The house that I have chosen is being managed by this really beautiful girl. I was thinking of asking her out after all the paperwork, commission, process is over. I was thinking of something along the lines of, " If you weren't working and I asked you to go out with me what would you say?". What do you think, any other suggestions?

Thanks in advance, If you would like some extra info, just let me know.