I was chatting with a girl who i have a thing with over facebook, who we'll call K, (and who i met on a fantastic cold approach) and passion kind of came up. I make music with a very attractive friend of mine and K was inquiring whether or not she and I had ever hooked up or anything. I said no, because I thought the music was way more important than anything like that, of course leaving out the fact that I could never succeed if i tried.

K was suddenly taken aback basically saying that she admires that and has so much respect for me. A quote for you all:

"I mean I really respect people who are passionate about something and work hard at it. And keep the relationships between their band mates,team mates, scene partners etc. professional and friendly so they can make great art together"

I've read it on here numerous times before, but i wanted to emphasize how important it is to be passionate about something

tl;dr - Find something you love to do, and people will love you for it