Just a quick disclaimer: This post/question is not geared towards those with oneitis, instead it is geared towards those of us who are interested in a girl, and aren't ready to throw in the towel just yet.

A few times now I have found myself in situations where either the girl is playing hard to get or she isn't reciprocating fully, (i'm talking mostly long term situations here) and i often find myself supplicating or whatever until it eventually fizzles out and dies.

Earlier today i was talking to one girl who falls into this long-term sort of failer category through snapchat after waking up from a crazy, motivating dream so i decided to nad up and be pretty straightforward with her. I said "If i keep asking you out, will you eventually say yes?" and she said yes, she "eventually" would. I guess the point here is that i persisted, and didn't really supplicate at all.

I know a lot of advice tells you that if you don't get a certain amount of attention, respect, etc from a girl you should just drop her there and then. I, on the other hand, can not fully agree with that advice because there are some girls in this life that we just need to pursue -- at least I think so.

So what are your guys' thoughts? Is it possible to persist without supplication? If so how? Is the only way really just to drop girls who aren't being responsive? How far are you guys willing to go? You tell me. I'm eager to bounce some ideas around.