I met this girl on tinder, I’m 22 years old and still a Virgin. She offered to hook up with me and was very forward about it. I drove an hour to her place to do the deed and finally rid myself of the burden that is my virginity. I had zero self confidence and self esteem in high school, so that led to me not going anywhere with the opposite sex. Not to mention I am introverted and have a bit of SA. Now I am nearly graduated from college, and I have kissed one girl....ONE. I think a lot of this was due to porn abuse too..:(

Anyways back to the story. I get there, I’m a little bit tired. She looks almost nothing like her picture (I should have known better). She is shy, awkward, and generally i knew this wasn’t gonna go good. We go back to her place I start feeling up her boobs. She’s wet. I get her clothes off, then I pull my pants down. Lone behold, I could NOT get hard at all...i was absolutely ashamed. I put my clothes back on and simply left.

Has anybody here EVER been in my situation? I need serious help. I have been going to therapy for my SA, but now I have performance anxiety and can’t get hard. I’m worried I won’t be losing my virginity for awhile, and will leave college a Virgin :(