Pick up chellanges

rich_god · 2019-11-08T10:41:09+00:00

When I read the game 8 years ago and started to practice, I wanted to learn to be at peace with rejection, and I even wanted to like it, to be proud of it. So I did challenges that would force rejection. I went to a park once a week and did various challenges :

going to a girl and ask « hey I love your hair, can I smell them ? » (this is my favorite one, réactions are priceless)
try to speak to a girl using only my name, no other word. It works for any specific word.
saying really cheesy lines thar make no sense with real conviction like « are you from heaven ? Cause when you hurt yourself you put stars into my heart. » or whatever was going through my head.
saying « hi what’s your name » really slowly, repeating words.
saying to a girl « hi Melinda, so nice to see you » and then staying certain that she was indeed Melinda.
opening with really dumb questions like « would you prefer your arms are made of rubber, or to be always followed by 40 ducks ? ».

The crazy thing was, I wasn’t nearly as rejected as I thought. Most people were really nice and amused, and while my goal was to be rejected so I didn’t try to get numbers or anything, I learnt many things. Basically that the important thing is your energy, your confidence, and if you don’t expect anything from people, they will be nice to you. I stopped doing it after a few weeks when I felt comfortable with it.

Also put challenges that rely on you. « Making small talk » doesn’t rely on you. « Ask someone what she does in life » relies on you.

axe122 · 2019-11-08T10:56:30+00:00

If you don’t feel comfortable at all talking with strangers yet start super basic like your saying ask for directions anything just to get yourself interacting with people. If I’m at the gym I ask girl to race me on the treadmill cuz I think it’s funny and I actually do end up racing them then but it’s an endurance run to see who can last longest. Make up a silly story you can run a push pull with right off the beginning. Once your able to make a girl smile and laugh easily you’ll start to feel better about your interactions.

sinbad2011 · 2019-11-09T15:25:09+00:00

Ask 5 girls for they number and try not to care.

Giving genuine compliments.

really depends on where you are. There are so many fun exercises to get you warmed up. for example, You don't wanna be doing weird sh*t on small campuses.

Title	Pick up chellanges
Author	kuboM
Upvotes	7
Comments	3
Date	November 8, 2019 9:49 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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