Hi,

So this girl (20f Y), and I (21m X) were chatting for some time. Last week, on two occasions, she came to my place spontaneously and we had a great time, but I never tried to initiate physical contact as I don’t want to press anything.

The same day, we went at a club with two separate groups of friends. Three of her friends came to me and said to me « oh you’re X, Y wants you to take the lead », I have never seen these girls ever. Later, a girl friend of mine went to Y to talk to her and Y drunkenly said to her that she Liked me.

But since that Friday, she is kind of distant, she doesn’t reply as usually as she used to, but she calls me everyday sometimes late at night, we talk for hours and flirt a lot. I was very shy with her at first which made and her think I wasn’t interested and « not putting as much effort as she wants me to » as she told me sometimes ago, but we had this call that made me open up a lot more to her. Yesterday, she called me to ask me to come to her birthday party, I happily accepted and told her to come to my place tonight for dinner.

Since that call, I think she blocked me from viewing her Snapchat location because she doesn’t appear on the map but I know she is the kind of girl that goes on Social Medias 24/7, I asked her to come to my place yesterday night and she declined stating she would be late and tired but suggested another day and immediately said yes for tonight.

I know I sound clingy and all but I am still not sure as why she suddenly stopped replying to texts, stop opening snaps (but still send some), and at the same time, calls me almost everyday. I am now trying to take the lead (as she asked) and she seems to lay back and lose interest, one day she is great and the other I feel like bothering her.