Please help seddit and analyze me

ThrowawayPUA · 2018-06-15T21:50:32+00:00

Good job interview questions. Bad seduction questions.

KingRead · 2018-06-16T01:46:23+00:00

Oh man do u need help.

Next time you get a number, get it for a reason. Don't just get it to 'chat' with her.

Get to know the girl in person, then suggest doing something you can do together. Once you have a plan in place ask for the number and try to keep texting only for that reason.

And stop cold approaching at the gym. Find somewhere else to shit. You need the gym to be a comfortable place for you so you stay going. If you approach and make it awkward with every girl there you'll stop going there and lose your gains.

Find other girls to practice on. And for fucks sake, try talking about anything other than school.

TonyDAbsolute · 2018-06-15T23:21:36+00:00

The opener is bad. "The awkward guy." You should be saying, "The awesome and near perfect guy."

Women are not attracted to shyness, humbleness, timidity. Even if you were awkward, you have to appear overly confident. This actually makes the text funny.

Also the content of the text is boring. "What are you majoring in."

There are resources out there for texting on Youtube. Study some of that.

sever27 · 2018-06-16T07:23:11+00:00

Spelling you're as your certainly won't help

Westernleaning · 2018-06-16T06:37:15+00:00

Terrible man, get coaching from one of the pros, not me.

Your first message was terrible. You denigrated yourself, wtf. “That awkward guy”? Don’t you respect yourself? Why not just say “hey it’s Will from orientation”. Remember you need to prize yourself dude, you’re choosing her as much as she’s choosing you!

Then the rest is just bland, wtf are you a career counselor or the guy who’s going to fuck her brains out? You need to decide. If you’re going to bang her you need to go sexual “hey sexy pants” or “you wanna get your grannie panties on and go grab a drink”...

Dude here’s an example, I just had a hot hot chick write me “hey Westernleaning it’s nice to connect with you, how are you?” on Bumble... my response was “pffff, wtf is this your LinkedIn interview opener, come back with something original or I’m dropping you 😂🤷🏻‍♂️” she immediately went from bored to qualifying herself “oh, sorry I shoulda started with something funny, I can’t come up with anything” my answer was “ok you fucked it up again, and you didn’t even try, can you at least make good pancakes?” Her response was something along the lines of “no!, I’ve never even tried is that a deal breaker?” at this stage I have her by the neck I go “not yet but close, you aren’t a loud chewer right, you’re definitely out then” she starts answering like “oh no, I’m definitely not, omg haha” anyway got her number then, told her let’s go out for drinks but she’s paying for the first drink if she can’t come up with something sexy and funny to say by them, notice how I didn’t once get heavy into her life or she into mine! I just kept challenging her but lightly in a jokey fashion, building tension. I was very clear in qualifying HER or making her qualify herself to ME and I led the interaction to where I wanted it to go. And the whole point of the interaction was to get her out on a date! It isn’t to explore the depths of her career choices.

pizzuminat · 2018-06-16T09:33:45+00:00

Talking about job/school is boring topic (not everyone like smalltalk). Try topic where she can answer you more than 1 word.

BMP4 · 2018-06-15T19:49:30+00:00

Ok so some background. I've been going to the gym and I got some snapchats and phone numbers out of it. While I was doing that I developed a crush on this girl. She was always in and out though and I wasn't gonna stop a workout for that purpose. I'm resonably good at cold approach and I had plenty of practice. She didn't go to the gym regularly making it that much harder to get the number. I finally get her number but it was an awkward approach. But I got the number. 2 days later I go to the ER for a bad finger. I also realized I hit on some people she knew and they blocked me. She said while we talked that we were going to the same college but she was busy with a camp and I told her I was busy with work. She seems like a really religious girl. I don't want sex I just want a date. Help me out here please.

BMP4 · 2018-06-15T20:21:22+00:00

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Title	Please help seddit and analyze me
Author	BMP4
Upvotes	5
Comments	13
Date	June 15, 2018 7:47 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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