So this is something I've noticed with my game. In situations where full blown conversation is possible, I usually have my best successes, especially house parties. I find I can be quite witty, and combine in the kino quite well, work a room etc.
On the opposite end of this spectrum, I also have reasonable success in the big, sweaty, sardine-packed clubs where conversation is impossible. I have the confidence to break into large girl only sets, grab girls and dance with them and escalate etc.
However, I'm having a problem in the kind of small clubs, or very busy bars where you can't just grab her, but it's too loud for a proper conversation. I'm guessing in these situations you need some sort of go-to one liner before moving in. My brain always comes up with such awkward stuff to say, even though I'm a good conversationalist otherwise. 'How are you enjoying [club name]?', 'what are you drinking?', 'are these your friends?' and so on. It's all I can ever think of and it never works. I almost never have success in these venues. On a kind of side note, I've also noticed in these venues I have problems espeically with two sets, as I feel I can only engage one person at a time. What's up with that, should I skip the 2 sets?
So either I'm approaching those situations completely wrong, or I need some canned material to build from. Any suggestions? Any help is appreciated. Thanks
EDIT: I should probably clarify, when I say my openers aren't working, I mean the girls are unreceptive, may move off, close up the circle etc, i.e the opposite of the other situations I described above. I know lines aren't some magic cure.
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