Problem

espionagent · 2019-12-13T02:56:37+00:00

there is a lot for you to learn, no disrespect

its ok to want sex

but its not okay to want sex so much that you come off desperate to a woman

its a hard balance to strike

especially because men are expected to lead the conversations toward dates, and escalate physically during the dates

you gotta shoot your shot but you never know if youre gonna swish, so you gotta be okay with either of the outcomes. That's called being outcome independent. More on this: girls don't like badboys. They like guys who create their purpose, follow it with passion, and they want confident guys who speak their mind without being afraid of losing pussy.

I'm gonna keep this really brief but just so you know

girls also really like sex; they are just selective about whom they have sex because they have a psychological component to being aroused. They want to feel comfortable around you. They don't want to be used for sex because some guys will ghost them afterwards; most girls will have gone through this experience.

What they want from you is to be a well rounded man. You gotta look good, AND you gotta have good people skills, AND you gotta have a purpose (either in school or a career that's going somewhere) AND you need to have your own friends/family to bring you emotional fulfillment. Life isn't about sex. it's about balance from achievement, family, friendships, money AND sex. sex is just a bonus that's awarded to a high quality man on his purpose.

Competition is really stiff right now. Girls are super selective about appearance. They care about height and face. You can't work on them but you can start building big muscles via self discipline, you can dress well, you can groom your face and get a good ass haircut and maintain it.

When talking to girls, put sex last thing on your mind and really listen to them. Ask why they feel that way. See if you can connect via mutual interests. See if they are good for YOUR life.

Take life seriously when it comes to working hard on your purpose and yourself, but be easy going with your friends and women, and have the attitude of making the most out of every situation you are in.

Get some good HD and fun pictures of yourself in good outfits; Get 3-4. Make a tinder profile. One in a suit. One with a dog. One with you outdoors. One clearly showing your face. Put your face first. Keep your bio short and witty. swipe away. you can probably get 1 or 2 lays this way.

good luck bro

Goldenpanda18 · 2019-12-13T02:39:47+00:00

Your goal should be to create a conversation with a girl and flirt, you shouldn't be needy for sex and a kiss because that's why it hasn't happened for you. It's like the girls can sense your neediness

I get it, you want some pussy like most of us but man you need to ease up and be patient, if you can't hold a conversation then forget about sex for now.

Ask a girl her name, offer to buy her a drink, make jokes, compliment her but don't be needy.

Good luck man!

edbanger52 · 2019-12-13T21:34:22+00:00

Don't miss opportunities bud... we've all had that one story: "I could've, should've".....

bournit · 2019-12-13T23:54:23+00:00

Learn daygame and approaching . It can solve 85 % of your problems.

ernst_starvo_blofeld · 2019-12-13T13:37:51+00:00

Better get your act together, or you will be asking this question at 42!

Title	Problem
Author	mumbaala
Upvotes	17
Comments	8
Date	December 13, 2019 12:49 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/e9wikr/problem/
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