So, I'll be honest I don't have problems hooking up with girls. The problem I have is the girls I care about, I can't really continue things after one or two drunk hookups. The second and third hookups for me are much tougher than the first for some odd reason. When I ask them out to grab a beer or something, they hesitate. I mean I don't know what I'm doing wrong, don't girls like guys who don't just booty call them? It's tough for me to be that dick who ignores girls to try and get them interested. I like proactively talking to girls I care about, the problem is some girls see that as clingy and are cold to my pursuits that way. Basically, how can I sustain things with girls I care about?