So recently I have started to become a 'messy' drunk; I drink too much when I go out to the point that I get kicked out of bars, spill drinks, generally make a fool of myself. I don't want to stop drinking entirely - at least not yet - because I can't avoid the fact that it's an easy way to make me more confident and outgoing. How should I limit myself so I just get 'buzzed'? Any advice much appreciated