I really need some help. I tend to overwrite, so I am trying to keep it short. Ask questions and I will elaborate.

I have always struggled with "game". Since my engagement fell apart a little over a year ago, I have been trying to figure out what has always been the problem. I am honestly terrible at it. I have honestly only been with a woman maybe 7 times in the last 15 months. I have made many very close female friends who will never see me "that" way and I am honestly getting fed up with not being able to make a move that works.

I read posts on here every day to try to learn and understand what I am doing wrong. The best explanation I can come up with is that I am a very black and white person. It is a structural thing, I really struggle with ambiguity and "gray". As a result, I don't lie under general circumstances. I am also rather up front and struggle with being able to make a girl curious enough to want to get to know me better, especially romantically. These are things that I have been trying to change for my entire life, but I have come to the realization that they are part of my being and cannot be changed or removed.