Hey, long time lurker. I'm a freshman in college and I have spent the last year in antisocial self perscribed isolation, with self pity and degraded social skills to keep me company. Needless to say, I've never had a girlfriend, never had sex, and never kissed someone ( until now).

I forced myself to a frat party (more like a basement rave minus the ecstasy). I forced myself just to let go and have fun. Whaddaya know a girl starts grinding on me? I laugh for a bit and just go with it.

She turns around and goes for the kiss, makeout. I can't tell you exactly where I fucked up but I had no idea what I was doing. She gets fed up and looks kinda sad and moves away.

I'm not exactly bummed but this was my first kiss so its playing in my head alot. My question is: how do you actually kiss and makeout?

I figured out the signals for when it was appropriate but the actual technique is unknown to me. What should I keep in mind in the future? I'm not necessarily looking to hook up with these girls yet (would rather my V card be taken by someone I have actual feeling for, but who knows?) I simply am looking to just not be completely aco taco.

So anything in regards to techniques that you found helpful would be really appreciated.