I met 2 fine women at the bar on Wednesday that were friends and got both numbers.

It was a karaoke bar and I went solo. Started off around 10pm and sang the certified hood classic “Feelin on your booty” by R Kelly. Good crowd reception and I had fun. After chilling for a bit talking to a bunch of different people I seen a group of 3 pretty women come in. (Will refer to them as girl 1 , 2 & 3. Pulled 1 & 2s number. More interested in 1 we have more chemistry)

I ended up singing another song, another classic “I’m Sprung” by T-Pain. They were by the bar and were vibing to it and we made eye contact a few times during the song.

After the song I went to the pool tables and set up for the next game. Made my approach and told 3 I needed a partner for pool and asked if she was interested. I had no target at this point. She said her and her friend were really bad and I said “yeah I was looking around for whoever would be the worst that’s why I asked you,” Friend 1 chimed in and said they were both down, meanwhile friend 3 was chatting it up with someone. They pulled friend 3 over and said it was her birthday so I said happy birthday and made a few jokes.

Some other guys came up and started talking to 1 & 3. So me and 2 chatted it up about what she did for work and she was a political advisor for a local legislator. We joked and talked and I mentioned I always wanted to become the mayor. After about 20 minutes of talking I told her “I need to get back with my friends but let me get your number so you can help me out when I decide to run for mayor”

From there I told them I was going to go back to my friends and get them when we were ready.

I went by the pool table and made friends with the people playing. I told the winner that I had some ladies that wanted to play and we weren’t going to take it to serious and he was down. So I went and grabbed 1 & 3. I asked who was better and 3 said she had never played before so I told her she should partner with my friend cause he was really good. From there we played 2 games and I was gaming 1 the whole time, physically escalating, and vibing. Turned out we both have jobs that involve working around kids and I told her to give me her number and we can exchange some of the wild stories we have from crazy students. Success

After the first game 2 came back and we all talked and played. After game 2 it was 1am and 3 said she had to wake up early for work the next day and her and 1 were going to head out and 2 was walking them to their car. She said she would text me when she got back in but only if I wanted her too and I said of course I want you too but I might be leaving soon. I stayed back and talked with guys for about 10 minutes and made friends with the dj who invited me out to this club Saturday night that he was working at cause he could tell I like girls with “flavor” (I got jungle fever lol)

The next morning I had texted both and 2 said she was sorry that she didn’t text that night, I said “ you broke my heart” and she was like sorry I do that some times, I said I’m sure you will do it me again and here’s your chance, let’s go get coffee next week and get to know each other more. We talked more and confirmed for Friday at noon. We’ve talked a little bit since then but keeping it more minimal

Texted 1 later that day and said good job last night we should get together and play more for practice. She was reciprocating the energy just like the night before and we were making cute jokes to each other. I asked what she likes to go out and do and we should get together Wednesday,she said she likes more chill vibes and I said let’s go get coffee Wednesday afternoon and see where the night takes us, she responded that’s a cute idea. I said cute is my speciality why do you think I wanted your number? We confirmed for Wednesday and have been talking still since. She asked if we could push it sooner to Sunday and I agreed.

Now the dilemma

TLDR

I set up dates with both of them next week one Wednesday one Friday. I’m more interested in the Wednesday date and we have much more connection.

Am I fool for setting up both? Is this not going to work well for me lol I’m not looking for a relationship at all and have a roster.

I currently have 3 casual dating partners with others that I have interest in we just haven’t worked out schedules yet. I feel like I’m taking on too much lol