Man, bro. You always want to place your needs above other's needs.

Yes that sounds selfish.

Truth is that it's efficient.

See, the best place you can be in to help someone is actually to be in a good place yourself.

If you're in a good, healthy place, you can help others without hurting yourself and others in the process.

If you're in scarcity and trying to get some self worth out of pleasing others, you're probably doing this more for your own sake than their sake, and it's not as effective anyways.

Would you rather be helped by a millionaire or by a poor man?

There is no shame in helping yourself first, then helping others.

It's way more effective than being blind & leading the blind.

When it comes to women, be the best amazing version of yourself first, so that you can then share some of this awesomeness with the women who enter your life.