Q: How to approach direct and stack without being needy?

polarizingpotato · 2019-10-10T17:05:55+00:00

Abundance mindset - YOU are the prize not her.

You are inviting her into your life and providing her value, not trying to seek her approval or win her over.

smoothmax · 2019-10-10T18:03:57+00:00

" ... I think it's because I appear needy since when I start to run out of things to say I compliment something about her so I can rant about it for a bit ... "

You need to get out of your head and into your body. Just feel the pleasure of being there talking to her. Nonsensical, boring or pointless conversations will result which is a good thing if you are vibing with each other.

Pretty much zero attraction will result if you're in your head trying to "think" of what to say next.

You only need to come out of your body long enough to ask about logistics (if she doesn't bring it up), set a time constraint, talk about future plans, get a number and say goodbye.

When you are vibing it's irrelevant if you tease or compliment, and often you won't even remember if you did.

Title	Q: How to approach direct and stack without being needy?
Author	Regillius
Upvotes	3
Comments	3
Date	October 10, 2019 5:01 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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