I think we all have a handful of girls in our social circles that we know and probably could date/hook up with if we played our cards right, but we aren't sure how to go about it.

These are the girls you went to school with, still see out on occasion, and maybe even text every now and then. They're the girls that are friends with you and facebook and follow you on instagram. They see what you're up to and how you're doing from what you post on facebook and instagram and for the most part, social media is the only form of interaction you have with each other.

Do you guys believe that there is a formula or set of rules with respect to how to properly utilize your social media accounts in order to make these girls more interested? Things like:

  • Frequency with which you post pictures/f statuses
  • Content (What types of pictures/posts intrigue girls and create a desire to want to hang out with you and at the same time what types of posts push them away)
  • What types of pictures your "main" picture should be and your "cover" photo

I've always believed there needs to be a good balance of mysteriousness but at the same time not falling off the grid entirely.

What are your thoughts guys?