Question: what to do after a K close?

johnnyangels · 2013-04-04T19:56:51+00:00

text is a time bridge for your next meet up

kingcal · 2013-04-05T03:20:04+00:00

When doesn't matter nearly as much as what. I'm sick of the "when should I text her" conversation. It implies that she's in the driver's seat and you're already falling into oneitis for her -- worrying about what you can do to impress her and like you more, or at least not fuck it up.

Text her when you goddamn feel like. Don't make bullshit chit chat. Tell her you're taking her out on Friday at 8 PM and that she should wear something hot.

xplio · 2013-04-04T20:00:53+00:00

Text her and get another date.

sisyphan_sophistry · 2013-04-04T21:23:52+00:00

K close? I'm not always sure why that even gets to be a term.

Certainly, I have kissed more girls than I have had sexual contact with, but the number isn't far off. A few virgins, here and there.

If I kiss a girl, it means things are about to get very physical, very fast.

Basically, Tiffany7570 has the right answer to your question.

However, (and I'm merely speculating, here) I have some advice to offer you and everyone else who settles the end of the night with just kissing.

This is your opportunity to generate a massive amount of attraction. Try to give her an orgasm without actually going anywhere inappropriate. Learn how to love a woman.

Be a good kisser. Use your hands. Use your bodies. Find the nape of her neck with your lips. Forget anything you've ever seen in porn. Learn to generate lust in women.

Time and time again, I hear girls say "I've never experienced anything like that before." What this tells me is that most guys have absolutely no idea what they are doing.

If you want to be a gentlemen and not screw on the first date, I ain't hatin. I'm saying, though, that if you have used your opportunity to kiss her right, you won't have to wonder what to text her next, because she will be Facebook stalking you minutes after you are out the door and texting you as soon as she feels she has waited the appropriate interval.

For example, (I don't give out my number, ever. I usually stick to emails) this is the type of response you should be shooting for:

So I know I have sent you three emails now, but I can't stop thinking about you. I know that what we did was probably not the smartest thing but I have never had it so damn good. I can't believe that someone I have just known for 1 day could have this effect on me. You make me step outside of myself and consider things I haven't ever thought could be possible.

I know you don't have internet all the time, and not hearing from you is killing me; I don't have the best patience… But before I stop checking my email 16 times a day like a mad woman there is something I want to say.

I can't explain why or how, but you have done something to me that I never thought could happen. You make me excited, want to see the world. I find that I don't care about much else. I did know that it was possible to be so fascinated by one person. I want to hear about all of your good, bad and ugly. I want to bring out all the secret sides of you, all the things you feel like you need to hide from the rest of the world. I can't stop thinking about that night. How amazing your body is and your mind. How incredible the sex was. I have never had anything like that, and I want more. It is addictive. You are addictive. I know I probably sound like a crazy person, I promise I am not normally this attached to anything. But there was something different about you.

You have put me between a rock and a hard place.. I want to see you again.

That is my advice. Learn how to handle a woman. If you are great in bed, they will look past all kinds of issues (like not having a job, a phone, access to the Internet, etc.)

adyboss8 · 2013-04-04T20:40:39+00:00

You need to text her a few hours after in order to "reignite" the emotion. If you k close on first meet then it is very possible that the huge emotion built is going to snuff down. The mistake to leave it a day is because that emotion will be gone completly because there is no strong emotional connection between you two yet. Note: rapport is one of the best way to anchor that huge emotional point. High Impact is another one, if I am correct.

2013-04-04T20:54:08+00:00

I text her 10 days later saying that her mother taught her well, and that her mother also says hi

Title	Question: what to do after a K close?
Author	boneyendoplasm
Upvotes	1
Comments	18
Date	April 4, 2013 7:36 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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