So I posted an infield description yesterday and asked for some critique/advice for next time. This was my first time: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5a525f/advice_please_description_of_infield_experience/

I got a comment in response to my claim that I am a very confident individual saying that I am faking my confidence. The user said, "You were rejected and ignored by all women you approached that night. How's your "confidence" working out for you? Also you don't have a profitable career, you don't have much achievements yet, you are not successful with women, you lack good looks and your ethnicity carries negative stereotypes. Therefore, WHERE are you getting your "confidence" from? That's a fake confidence, you are pretending being someone you are not."

I honestly believe that confidence should not stem from anything related to a person's ethnicity, salary, looks, or past accomplishments. My confidence comes from the fact that I know I'm funny, intelligent and reasonably athletic, so why wouldn't a girl want me? Also, I feel like I wouldn't want a girl who solely cared about any of those things anyways.

Am I thinking about confidence the right way, or is this user in question correct in his approach?

Also, I appreciate any advice regarding my infield description from last night.

Thanks!

~IndianWise