So in my last post (full post here: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/61hx3u/get_the_girl_to_chase_you_my_text_game/) I talked about how I used push/pull to create attraction with this girl to the point where when she knew I was in the area (we live in different cities) she repeatedly invited me to hang out with her. Again, bear in mind that I have NOT actually met this girl in person and have only communicated over Snapchat.

We got to know each other over spring break- response times were instant once my "snap" was opened. You can tell if someone is "online" on snapchat if their "snap score" increases- which basically means they are in the midst of messaging other people. Once school started for the both of us, however, response times could take forever. We snap each other daily to maintain a "streak"- basically means you send a picture on Snapchat back and forth to each other within 24 hours- and sometimes she would open my "snap" and take hours to respond with a picture of her own, either responding to my message or of something interesting she was doing. I knew she was still on the app because her snap score was increasing. So what gives?

The average chump might decide, "Fuck, I blew it. She doesn't like me. Fuck it, I'll move on." I am not the average chump.

This advice can relate to all kinds of apps ranging from Snapchat to Tinder. A girl might not be able to respond because...

  1. She is legitimately busy and away from her phone.

  2. She has MORE IMPORTANT people to talk to. Unlike a cold approach in-person, you are just a person she knows through the Internet.

  3. This means that she could be talking to her close friends, her family, her classmates for a group project, whatever.

So guys, when a girl "reads" your message and doesn't respond for what seems like forever, don't necessarily worry. Worry more if she doesn't respond EVER. Most important thing is to push for the meet up and use game in person to make yourself EARN that position of being someone she constantly responds to. This could take a while- remember, if you've only met through the Internet before meeting in person, then you're not necessarily going to be someone she talks to all the time after just one meeting. At least that's my take on things.

Any thoughts and comments are appreciated as always, gentlemen.